Was reading an article by a CNN columnist Douglas Rushkoof- why I quit facebook. He had some interesting points. But that isn’t the purpose of my article. It got me thinking about the do’s and don’ts of facebook. So, what is considered proper behaviour on facebook? Well, after a little digging around, I discovered there is a wealth of knowledge on the very subject. So, here is most of what I can find, plus a few of mine. Let’s start with the NO-NO’s- DONTS 1. Avoid adding strangers. Unless I missed the memo by facebook saying there were prizes for the most number of friends. Seriously though, scam artists operate via facebook too. Also, remember that your friends also say a lot about you. 2. Avoid putting all your data out there. Not everyone NEEDs to know everything about you via facebook updates. The close people in your life know you and tend to know what’s up...
Background story - Oskar Pistorius , South African sprinter was charged to court for the murder of his model girlfriend - Reeva Steenkamp. Initial claims of mistaken identity were heard in the media. The police have since debunked the rumors. Reporting that the couple had a rocky relationship. With earlier reports of domestic violence. Mr Pistorius has been charged with the murder of his girlfriend. Following this, Mr Femi Fani-Kayode decided to share his opinion on Facebook.Mr Femi Fani-Kayode , former minister of aviation , claims that obviously Oskar Pistorius was provoked. That the girlfriend - Reeva Steenkamp was 'obviously' a Jezebel and a Delilah, whatever that means. This follows the trend of my earlier article why aren't you vexed .Men supposedly not having any self control. Even though Mr Fani-kayode has since removed the post from his Facebook page, it would do him well to remember that nothing is ever really deleted. Please read below- A ...
I have always wondered what drives the aggression girls have towards other girls. I mean, I have lived a very colorful life. Anyone who knows me, understands what I mean. I have been accused of everything under the sun. One of my friends actually accused me of 'stealing her friends'. Please note that i didnt say boyfriend oh. By way, she meant her guy friends. I have never had many girl friends. Always wondered what was wrong with me. Actually had a talk with a friend with many gal pals and she gave me some helpful tips; - Try to be none threatening. Don't come across as sexy or flirty. Girls deemed as sexy or pretty are seen as threats and girls become aggressive. - Try to be funny. Always helps to keep other women at ease. Tried these methods. Didn't work. Anyway, long story short. Its been an uphill battle for me. But this isn't meant to be a pity party. Just to say, I have always wondered what it is that informs this aggression. This girl on girl cruel...
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