Is Shaming Effective Punishment??

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There are many stories of parents that have turned to shame based punishment as a method of discipline. An example is making a child wear a t-shirt to school with his/her offense written on it, as a mother in fort Morgan did. Other examples, a mother made her son hold a sign with an apology to the teacher that he had  disrespected. He displayed this sign in front of his school. Since the onset of these public displays of 'name it or shame it'( i know. just came up with that), there has been response from the public. some believe this is the worst type of parenting.
 I am not here to argue for or against. I just think its interesting the way punishments have evolved. As a child, punishment was being twacked. I wonder how I would have responded if i was shamed.


What do you all think? Would you shame your child?

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